Benefits of having an artist friend

PAMELA

An Artist life can be a bit lonely at times. We experience moments of solitude while engaged in our creative process, whether it is in the studio, spare bedroom, the kitchen table or at a makeshift workspace.

I love waking up early, drinking a cup of coffee and then starting my day contemplating thoughts about my art. The isolation in my studio becomes noticeable after several hours of focusing on my work. 

There are times I would love to have someone to discuss ideas, provide critique, offer reassurance, or simply share the journey. That would be a valuable addition to those creative moments. 

Even though we are miles apart, having Ria to chat with weekly about my art is invaluable. I can easily share pictures through my phone or email. Ria is always there to provide insightful feedback without judgement. 

When I am in my studio I sometimes listen to a Podcast, music or put a mundane movie on my computer just to have some background noise. This is how I find balance and navigate those solitary moments.

Remember there are art communities you can join, art shows you can attend, and art galleries you can browse, and maybe chat with other artists who go through these moments. Who knows, you may find that artist friend in a place you least expect.

RIA

Creating art is a one person gig. It's you in a space with your art supplies and ideas. 

I value the times when I'm in a conversation with another artist. Pamela is on the top of my list for sharing all things art related. Since she moved to Utah I no longer have a companion to shop for art supplies, which I miss. But we spend a considerable amount of time on the phone these days. Are the conversations art related? Mostly! 

You always have full attention from an artist friend when you talk about art, materials, venues, and anything art related. Having an artist friend to bounce ideas off can be invaluable, especially if you lack confidence in pursuing something new.

Since it's not always easy for me to expound on ideas in writing I'll go on to my bullet list of why I think an artist friend is beneficial. I've read on the internet that you all like lists. Let me know if that's wrong!

• They believe in your skills and visions, even when you are having doubts
• You can toss ideas around without the fear of judgement
• They remind you of the accomplishments you've made when you don't see it yourself
• Other artists can give you tips on the technical challenges in an art career
• Critiques of our work by a friend is easier to take than a public one
• There's a really good chance they'll be honest about your work
• They inspire you to keep going

There's something really special and unique about having an artist friend. You share so much, including vulnerabilities, that you develop a deep bond of trust.

If you're an artist who doesn't have that special friend there's a good chance that you'll meet someone in a class, a group show that you are participating in, or a local art group; to name a few. 

We will be covering more in a future post about Finding an Art Community.